Taking the responsibility of impacting my stepson’s life and being a responsible sexual partner

Being a stepmom, I understand and pledge to provide all my responsibilities remorselessly. When my stepsons requires direction I come to the party. I have had to guide them through sexual exploration, but now they go overboard. The middle one in particular almost brings out my worst traits as I tend to lose my patience quite easily. But I am a loving mother and I will always lead them.